I Can Wait

Trust, safety and your choices

Terms and Conditions

Last updated 4 October 2026. For members who joined before 1 October 2026, the price, payment and refund changes made that day take effect on 15 October 2026; every other change takes effect straight away. · Governing law: South Australia, Australia.

Name changed 5 October 2026: Attune is now I Can Wait. Only the name and the words around it changed; your rights and our obligations did not.

New Terms take effect on 25 October 2026: read them here.

By creating an account or using I Can Wait (formerly Attune), you agree to these Terms of Service ("Terms"). We may also ask you to confirm this by ticking "I am 18 or over, and I agree to the Terms and the Privacy Policy" when you sign in; once you have, we ask again only after these Terms or the Privacy Policy change. Please read them carefully.

I Can Wait (formerly Attune) is a service of Robert Weeks AI Systems, the registered business name of Robert Weeks (ABN 41 104 020 501), South Australia. The I Can Wait website is icanwait.com.au (formerly attunematchmaking.com). In these Terms, "we", "us" and "our" mean Robert Weeks trading as Robert Weeks AI Systems. These Terms are the agreement between you and Robert Weeks.

1. Eligibility & Accounts

2. Service Scope & Safety Disclaimers

3. Pricing, Payments & Refunds

See our Refund Policy and steps to cancel membership renewal.

4. Code of Conduct

You agree to provide accurate and truthful information. You promise that the information and documents you give us, including any photo ID for the age check, are true and your own, and you accept that we rely on what you provide. You must not:

Serious conduct or safety concerns may require immediate restriction or suspension. We will explain a decision where appropriate and offer the complaints and appeals process. Suspension does not remove any non-excludable consumer or refund rights. See our Community guidelines.

5. Reporting & Emergency Disclaimer

Every match and conversation includes a report feature. Successfully saved reports enter the moderator queue and close the chat for the person who reported: they can still read it, but not send in it. A report of a threat or violence, intimate images shared or threatened without consent, someone who appears to be under 18, or sexual content involving a child also blocks the pair within I Can Wait straight away. Check the confirmation: connection or storage failures can prevent completion, and a report-limit response explains whether blocking succeeded when the new report was not saved. You can also block separately. Blocking cannot prevent contact outside I Can Wait. I Can Wait is not an emergency response service. If you are in immediate danger, contact 000 (Australia) or your local emergency services immediately.

6. Intellectual Property & User Content

You retain ownership of the text and media you upload ("User Content"). By submitting content, you grant us a non-exclusive, worldwide, royalty-free license to store, process, and display your content solely as necessary to operate the matching platform. Other members never see your interview answers themselves: they see your first name, age, gender and city, your approved photos, a compatibility score, the reasons and caveats behind it, what you have in common, an overall intimacy compatibility level if you answered the optional intimacy section, and the messages you send them. This licence ends when the content is removed, except for limited retention or processing needed to handle open safety reports, legal obligations or recovery copies described in the Privacy Policy.

7. Service Availability & Warranties

We work to keep I Can Wait running and accurate, but we cannot promise that it will always be available, free of errors, secure against every attack or free from data loss, or that it will find you a match. Its checks and compatibility scores have the limits described in clause 2 and on the Safety page.

Nothing in this clause or elsewhere in these Terms excludes, restricts or modifies your rights under the Australian Consumer Law, including the guarantees that services are supplied with due care and skill and are fit for any purpose you make known to us.

8. Limitation of Liability

To the maximum extent permitted by South Australian law and the Australian Consumer Law:

9. Account Termination

You may delete your account at any time via Account → Delete my account. We reserve the right to suspend or terminate your access immediately if you violate these Terms, pose a risk to safety, or as required by law. If I Can Wait shuts down permanently, we will provide reasonable advance notice via your registered email.

10. Governing Law & Dispute Resolution

These Terms are governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of South Australia. Nothing here prevents you using a court, tribunal, regulator or complaint process available under applicable law. You can first contact us through Complaints and appeals.

11. Changes to Terms

We may change these Terms. If a change is material, we will notify you by email at least 14 days before the changes take effect, and say in plain words what changes.

If you do not accept a change, you can stop using I Can Wait, and cancel your membership in your Apple ID settings (iPhone Settings → your name → Subscriptions) before the change takes effect. You can ask Apple for a refund, and if I Can Wait has failed to meet a consumer guarantee, putting it right is our responsibility (clause 3). Your rights under the Australian Consumer Law are not affected. You can also delete your account in Account.

When a change takes effect, we ask you to accept the new Terms at your next sign-in, by ticking "I am 18 or over, and I agree to the Terms and the Privacy Policy". Changes to these Terms will not increase the A$29.99 annual rate for an eligible founding member who remains continuously subscribed.

12. Contact Us

For support, legal notices, or refund requests, contact us at: [email protected]