Introductions built around what you tell us

I Can Wait is preparing for an Adelaide-first public launch for adults 18 and over. The free launch list is separate from a member account or paid subscription.

1. Complete the membership checks

I Can Wait is for adults 18 and over. Before you can be introduced to anyone you'll need to pass an age check: the camera check, or a person checking you in person or on a video call. Have photo ID ready in case you're asked for it. Checks can make mistakes and may need review. They do not prove someone's intentions or guarantee your safety. Read about age checks and review.

2. Complete a written interview

First, a card called "Before we ask about you" explains how your answers are used and asks you to agree; nothing you answer is saved until you do. Then describe your values, everyday life, preferences and relationship goals. I Can Wait sends your answers to AI services run by Groq and Cerebras in the United States to interpret them. You can question the interpretation and request corrections. Required profile details and your chosen deal breakers help determine eligibility for introductions.

Other members do not see your raw interview or private intimate answers. Selected profile information and explanations appear in introductions. See what we collect and share.

3. Review suggested introductions

The current matching system can suggest up to five new people in a day who score 75 or more out of 100, depending on eligibility, preferences and the available member pool. You may receive fewer or none. It does not promise one exclusive introduction at a time.

Each suggestion includes an explanation based on the information provided. A compatibility score is an internal comparison, not your percentage chance of a successful relationship. Answers cannot establish how someone will behave.

4. Choose whether to connect

Chat opens after both people accept. Take time to get to know each other. You can decline an introduction, block someone or make a report. See reporting and meeting safely.

Explore at your own pace

The optional private relationship review is for reflection; it does not change matching scores. Learn about its methods and limitations. Browse Adelaide events and local date ideas, checking details with the organiser before attending.

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